Farewell to one of my feline family members

I hate sad posts. But today I am sad.

Long ago my husband and I opted for a fur-family.  Two humans in the house was plenty but we had no problem with a dog and cat, then a cat and a cat, and most recently a cat, a cat and a cat.  Yep, last August we became crazy cat people when we rescued kitten Ernie.

Up until yesterday, this was our family.

Baby Ernie is on the floor, middle sister CK is above him.  And Matisse, their 19-year old older sister

left us yesterday.

Our hearts our broken but we are grateful for all of the years that we loved her fiercely and she loved us right back.

To my Facebook and Twitter followers – thank you.  Your outpouring of support made yesterday so much easier.

29 thoughts on “Farewell to one of my feline family members”

  1. Oh, JL I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you! We just lost our 16-year-old feline companion last month and I understand how heart-wrenching and devastating it is. I like to remember how much mutual love we shared and how much joy and happiness he brought us. Now I’m showering extra love on my little one, as I’m sure you’ll do with Matisse’s sisters!

  2. 19 years!  She clearly had a good life.  Of course you’ll miss her, but she lived a very long and very good life and hopefully that will bring you some comfort.

  3. JL, I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful kitty.  I hope the love of your other two will help you through this time.  

  4. I’m so sorry for your family’s loss, JL. As a fellow fur-mom, I can only imagine how it must change your world to have her gone. But, as you and others have said, it does seem like she had a wonderful life with you and I know her pawprints will be forever on your heart. Hugs! 

  5. My heart breaks for you and Dave.  I wish you both love and comfort as you come to terms with no longer having Matisse here with you in body.  Remember, she is still with you in spirit and always will be.  What a wonderful, long, healthy live filled with love you both gave her.  xx

  6. I’m sorry to hear about the passing of Matisse.  Losing a feline family member is very hard, especially because their presence makes up so much of what is “home.”  Sending many loving thoughts your way…  

  7. I’m so sorry. We lost our 16-year old cat last year, and I just got a new (rescued 10-year-old) two weeks ago. It breaks your heart to lose them, but it breaks your heart even more when you know they’re in pain.

    Take comfort in the comfort she now has, and of course, in your memories. My thoughts are with you all! 

  8. Thank you, JL, for giving Matisse such a long and wonderful life and then a safe and peaceful passage. There is really no better gift than that. You’re in my thoughts today. <3

  9. I am so sorry to hear that.  🙁  I’ve lost fur babies before and I know it’s devastating.  Thinking you. *hugs*

  10. Aw, I’m so sorry, JL!! 🙁 That’s so sad. But at least you two gave Matisse a very long and happy kitty life! I have a six-cat/two-dog fur family too, and some of mine are getting up there in age. It’s scary because we know when we become fur parents that we’ll likely outlive our babies, but it sucks when that becomes reality. Hang in there! 

  11. I am so, so sorry. Losing a furry family member is just devastating. We lost our almost-15-year-old dog last month and it is heartbreaking. At least beautiful Matisse got to experience a home filled with love.

  12. Farewell, beautiful Matisse.  I know how hard it is to lose a beloved member of your fur family. Thinking of you, JL. Take care.

  13. Oh JL, I’m so sorry for your loss. Our fur friends are so special, and it is so hard when they leave us. I’ll be sending you and your husband and your fur family and Ms. Matisse lots of love and light.

  14. Oh, I have tears in my eyes because we too have a fur-family and I fear the day we will lose our cats. I am so sorry for your loss JL. 

  15. Oh, JL, my heart goes out to you.  I am sure that was so, so hard.  What a beautiful girl she was. Sending you much love and sympathy! xo 

  16. Sending you virtual hugs today, JL! My husband and I have opted for a fur family too, and our kitties are a big part of our life. Take comfort in knowing that Matisse had a very happy and healthy 19 years. She will be missed. xoxo

  17. I’m sorry to hear this and you have my prayers.  I don’t know what I’d do if something happened to my furry pals. *hugs*

  18. So sorry.Try to take comfort in your other kitties,even though they can’t replace the one you lost.Hug them a lot.

  19. i’m so sorry about your pet.  it’s really hard to lose a furry family member and my husband
    and I have had three losses over the years of our family pets.  it’s really tough.  but when they were
    with us and happy and healthy, it was so much fun with them as a family!  remember the good
    times! 

  20. I am so very sorry for your loss.  We lost our “first born” in July.  It was heartbreaking, but, like you, I remind myself that he had a wonderful life and was very happy, up to his last day.  My condolensces.

  21. So sorry for your loss JL.  Losing a loved pet is the worst, but you and your kitty were lucky to have each other for so many years.  Hugs.

  22. JL, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve been there, and it just sucks.

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